Christmas Commercialization

We are in no way “bah humbug” kind of people, however, there is no denying that American culture has lost some of that Christmas Spirit that seemed to be more real when we were younger. Sure, there is a bit of nostalgia coming through in this email, but it’s important to remember the reason for the season. There is no denying that the Holiday Season is more of ‘a season’ than ever before.

Walking through our neighborhood in mid to late November it looked like everyone had their Christmas tree up and lit. You can’t blame people for wanting some cheer, spirit, and some light on these very short, dark, dreary days that descend upon us quickly this time of year.

And there is no denying that there are as many Christmas shopping commercials as there were political ads a few weeks ago. Frankly, a much better viewing experience, but nonetheless, the inundation of everything Christmas being about consumption and getting and receiving more and more, can gives us a false sense of joy that often disappoints when the day finally arrives.

The popularity of Christmas Hallmark Movies running 24 hours a day even before Halloween reveals the deep desire for love, connection, and meaning we associate with the holidays. This is a good thing. However, the depiction of the climax of the joy magically happening on Christmas Day creates this “Fear of Missing Out” notion for many when our Holiday isn’t filled with a crescendo of bliss of a perfect romance or financial boon or perfect family harmony.

During this Christmas and Holiday Season our wish is to make connection and give service and love to others all 365 days of the year. Sure, we will continue to give gifts, listen to Christmas music, eat lots of holiday treats, have fun get togethers, (and hopefully drink some wine), but on the 26th of December we will try to wake up with the same joy and purpose as we did on the 25th of December. Maybe we will try and make the holiday spirit last a little longer and go back to the days of “round robins” in the neighborhood and take the time to actually visit on a deeper level with each other over a glass or two of wine, home-made treats, and a spirit of true connection.

It’s so simple, but so profound. Give presents, but even more we will try to give our “presence” to others. It’s the greatest gift to both to give and to receive.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays & Cheers!